Relationship Reflection
The blog assignments
have been my favorite assignments since I started classes. When I saw what we
had to do for this assignment I immediately began to think about all the
relationships that I have had in my life. I even began to analyze a few of my
friendships, which stirred up a lot of emotions. In life we come in contact
with a lot of people for many different reasons. Some of those people are made
to stay in our life a lifetime and other are only meant to stay in our lives
for a season. I feel that there is a lesson that comes out of every
relationship that we have in life whether it be with a person or a pet.
Relationships are
important to me because they give me a sense of security and belonging. They
make me feel like somebody actually understands me and accepts me in spite of
my flaws and other imperfections. Relationships are also important to me
because they help me to see things from just my point of view, which is
something that I am still currently on. Relationships somewhat better me as a
person because I learn so much from other people. Relationships make me feel as
if I have support team that believes in me and is always there to pick me up
when I am down. No one wants to be alone even if they say it, that’s just human
nature we were meant to interact and have relationships with one another.
My mom is my,
everything and she means the world to me and more. I value our relationship and
have the upmost respect for it. She tells me when I am wrong and she tells me
when I am right, and I love that about her. She is always there when I need her
and has tried her best to prepare for the time in life when we might not be
together. I can talk to her about anything I value her opinion even if I
disagree with it. Like other relationships in my life we have had our ups and
downs but our love and mother daughter bond has helped us to conquer all. I
know a lot of people who don’t even speak to their moms and it is so foreign to
me because I could never imagine not having a relationship with my mom. Because
when the smoke clears and everything is said and done I know my mom is always
going to be the one that is right there beside me supporting me in everything
that I do.
My daughter is the
love of my, apple of my eye. Our relationship is very special to me also, if
only she knew the influence that she has on me. Everything I do is so she has
better life than I did and a better chance at succeeding in life. My daughter
is only six but she is just as supportive of me as I am to her. I make sure
that I am open with her to a certain level, so that she can see me for who I am
and others to. I make sure our relationship is positive so that when gets older
she doesn’t go seeking love in all the right places. I constantly tell her how
wonderful she is and how she can do anything that she puts her mind to. She
knows if she doesn’t have anyone she has “Mommy”.
I spend the majority
of time at work like most working people. I feel that it is very important to
not only be professional in the work place, but to build professional
relationship as well. In early head start there are no teacher assistance there
are all teachers. My co-teacher is simply amazing, her name is Marlene. We have
been working together for five years now and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
Our relationship means the world to me, she is always so positive. There are
some days that I come in and I am just feeling down. She knows exactly what to
say to give me that boost I need to carry on with my day. She’s very gifted
when it comes to art and decorating. You should see our classroom, it is
beautiful thanks to her. Out of the five years we have been working together I
can count on my hand how many times we have had a disagreement and even then it
was nothing major. I am so thankful for the patience that she has with me
because I can be a little head strong at times. I am so blessed to have this
work-friendship with her because sometimes it’s hard to deal with the same
people every day. She is truly heaven
sent!
My cousin Carla is
simply an angel who choose to give up her wings and come to live on earth. Our
relationship began when I was a little girl. She is older than me but always
took up time with me, even though she had her own children. I value our relationship
because like my mom she doesn’t mind telling me when I am wrong and what I need
to do to fix things. She is always right there when I need her and also helps
me with my daughter, who simply adores her. I don’t think she has a negative
bone in her body, she is always so positive, loving, and understanding. She
helps me to be more in tune to my spiritual side, prayer is her specialty. Not
only is she my cousin but she is one of my best friends and has always been, I
couldn’t be any luckier. She helps me to think with reason in my darkest hour,
and encourages me to take everything I do to the next level and not to worry
about what anyone thinks or says. I am grateful to have her in my life.
The biggest challenge
that I have ran into when over my years of maintaining relationships is
communication. A lot of times the lines of communication break down and there
is either no communication at all or things that are being said seem to get
misinterpreted. Often times when this happens one or both parties shut down,
which doesn’t help things at all. You have to keep the lines of communication
open so you can talk things out and see what’s going on with each other. All of
the characteristics that I named about the relationships that I have are
special characteristics in my opinion, they are all special to my love and I.
They are definitely partnerships because we both learn from one another and
bring something to the relationship.
My ability to
maintain relationships will help me as an early childhood professional, by
giving me the tools to learn to have and maintain professional relationships.
When working in the education there will always be times when it will be good
to have friends in other professionals that can help you in your time of need.
Whether it be a relationship with someone in the community that parents can be
referred to so they can receive assistance, or another professional in
education. Who can come maybe do workshops for parents or staff development
trainings. My ability to maintain relationships will also help me as an early
childhood professional by enabling me to have healthy relationships with my
parents and students, even the ones that are difficult. I am great for all the
many lesson that my relationships have taught me and I am still learning.
Hi Leah. I really, really enjoyed going through your post! Your daughter is adorable!!!! It is amazing how much our children influence by merely being themselves. I think you and I share a similar perspective on relationships. I also feel that everyone comes into our life for a reason. When I get back into the classroom, I hope that I have an amazing coteacher by my side. You hit the nail on the head when you said communication is the hard part when it comes to maintaining relationships. I look forward to reading more of your posts!
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ReplyDeleteI loved this assignment and I see that you did too! I was very interested to read the parts about your mother. I can tell my mom everything and like you said 'when the smoke clears' we are just as good as before we had an argument. On my own blog I also talked about communication and how important it is in each relationship I have come across. I can see that it is also important to you. I think the ability to speak your mind and not be turned away is extremely valuable.
Amanda
Hello Leah,
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing your relationships with the class. It’s amazing how life starts out whereas we feel that we have to have so many friends. As we mature and become older we notice that our circle of friends become smaller and there is an understanding of some God bringing people in our lives for a reason and some for a short season. I admire the relationship in which you have with your mother. As a mother I value the relationship that I have with my daughters and I love them to the moon and back. I see that we have the same views when it comes to our daughters. As a mother of girls I reminded them every day how special they were and to always remember that mommy will always be by your side and that I loved them no matter what. Thank you for sharing your insight on relationships and I look forward to reading more of your posts.
Hi Leah,
ReplyDeleteI love the way you poured out your heart concerning relationships.I totally agree with you when you say that relationships give us a sense of 'security and belonging'.
Same goes for me. And I think the parameters for knowing how much we love is to check how secure people around us feel. A sense of belonging makes one have a mindset of 'shared ownership'-this is what we need to put our differences aside in pursuit of common goals and values. When we achieve this with parents and families, friends and colleagues, we become a happier, healthier and more productive. Working as an educator doesn't become an herculean task but a delightful service.
Imma
Hi Leah I really enjoyed your Blog;) I always say that people come in our lives as a blessing or a lesson. It is so nice to see that you have had such a great support system surrounded by close family and friends. There is nothing like relationships filled with love and laughter. I thank you for your dedication and hard work caring for the young children and families in your community you are greatly appreciated continue to keep up the great work:)
ReplyDeleteI was almost in tears reading all of your kind words. Just like you I value all of the relationships in my life, even though I still have a lot to learn. You'll are awesome and I am so lucky to have you'll as my classmates. You'll Rock!
ReplyDeleteEnjoyed reading your post. I loved what you wrote about your mother. I have that same relationship. There is no love like the love of a mother. I too do not understand how anyone can have a horrible relationship with their mother but life happens and it is sad because your mother gave you life and you should cherish her while she is here on earth.
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